Are middle-aged women "hot"?
While having coffee with the "guys" one afternoon, one of the most loquacious in the group suddenly told a story of a friend who prefers to lay women between the ages of 35 to 45. His reason? Women in this age bracket are generally "hot".
Though his epiphany was taken as a joke by the others (men well over their 50s but prefer girls in their 20s) I did not. I prefer women in this age bracket (have dated a few from my social networking site), not because they are "hot," but because they are better in bed.
Is there a sex life among middle-aged women?
Oh yes, plenty. But you have to search them out. Because a lot of them have theirs "on hold" for relationship problems or from previous traumatic experiences. A significant many have theirs in ICU.
Am I kidding? No!
A survey done by a women's sexual health advocacy group shows that 79% of middle-aged women experience some loss of sexual desire and a whopping 40% of that have no desire at all.
Reasons for this are:
Medical:
At mid-life women enter the realm of perimenopausal or menopausal period. At this stage, their hormone production begins to change. Estrogen (a hormone necessary for reproduction) and progesterone (a hormone necessary to allow the fertilized egg to grow and develop into a baby and to help in the breasts' to manufacture milk) production starts to decline, coming to a full stop at post-menopausal period.
This decline triggers a similar decline in their tiny amounts of testosterone (a hormone responsible for regulating sex drive).
These changes not only affect a middle-aged woman's sexual desires, they also cause vaginal dryness (one of the major sexual health problems among women) making stimulation difficult, penetration painful.
Having sex with a middle-aged woman is like a siege, not raid. Patience and perseverance are necessary to claim the prize.
Personal:
To be a wife and a mother is not easy. Then you put in career, which a lot of modern-day women are so conscious of, and you go to bed with a woman too tired and stressed-out to have sleep, not sex, in her mind.
A lot of women in mid-life are confronted with several issues that impact their sensuality, i.e., motherhood, career, declining physical features, husbands who are uncharacteristically coming home late, relationship issues, health issues common to women, etc..
These erode their self-confidence; make them doubt their attractiveness and desirability; make them fearful of not being able to make out (but not to decline the opportunity exists).
A middle-aged woman need to be talked to, to be assured that, not withstanding her poor estimation of herself, she is still very sexually attractive and can make a man go crazy with desire if only she turns on her charms.
She needs to be whispered to, touched, and made to feel like a woman. She needs to be seduced.
If you can do that, then you might well find out that women between the ages 35 and 45 are "hot."
Joseph Dabon
I blog, [http://joespulpbits.com/], about the subject that thrills me most - health and happiness issues for the elderly.
I am also a freelance writer on wide variety of subjects, i.e., health and fitness, online business, personal improvement and motivation, press releases.
I am not a guru but I can be your partner in your writing needs..
Message me at dabon.joseph@yahoo.com. You can also tweet me or get in touch with me in Facebook, Google ++ or LinkedIn.
Your business is my business.
No comments:
Post a Comment